I already know the answer to this question. I already know you. No, I’m not some creepy stalker and I’m not collecting information on you. But, I know you. And I know why you’re here.
Something inside you has finally driven you to seek. You may not be sure what it is you’re searching for. That’s OK. Most of us who are on this journey didn’t know at first either. We just knew that we needed…something.
What Do You Need?
Maybe my blogs will help you or my videos will inspire you. Perhaps the books that I recommend will bring some useful information. Maybe we’ll even have a call to see if coaching is something you’re up for and if you’re a man I can work with. Any or all of this may happen and we may or may not end up working together. What I can’t answer yet is whether you’re in the right place or not. While I help men, there is no formula to decipher I can use to determine if a man who comes to me is a good match for me to coach.
That’s OK. You’re very welcome here. Any man seeking is welcome to The Exceptional Man.
Maybe you’re looking to go from good to great. Maybe, the sh*t has hit the fan in your life and you need guidance on how to make sense of it and get back on that path you know you’re meant to walk. Maybe you just have a burning desire to become the man you know is inside of you. The one who’s been held back by one of any number of reasons.
How You Ended Up Here
Often, men find me in the middle of “death by female.” This occurs when our partner, most often a woman, tells us she’s done, lets us know that she loves us but she’s not IN love with us. Maybe she’s been unfaithful or just wants to be. Maybe she wants a divorce or won’t leave the marriage for any number of reasons but, this is NOT what you want in a marriage (she doesn’t either, more on that in another blog). In any case, it hits you like a ton of bricks. You walk around with that feeling in your stomach. That big clunk of fear, anxiety and stress in the pit of your stomach that you think will never go away.
Yes, I know that feeling. Very well. I’ve been there, done that, read the book(s) and now am writing my own to help men. That’s how I know you and know why you’re here. “Death by female” is a crisis among men. Did you know that upwards of 70% of all divorces are instigated by the woman? Did you know that, when asked, most women said they were planning their escape 2 years before leaving or filing? No? Don’t worry, most men don’t know that. Numbers like these would be considered an epidemic in other circles. One with seemingly no cure.
But, there is a cure. I’ve found it and now I’m devoting my life to helping other men find it as well.
Can this “Epidemic” be Cured?
Well, you won’t find it in a bottle or a pill. It isn’t with some relationship coach who “promises” to save your marriage. This process has nothing to do with saving your marriage. Yet, often, that’s what ends up happening. Oddly enough, saving your marriage is a byproduct of the work we do here.
Saving you, or, more accurately, helping you save you or become true to yourself, is the real work AND the real result. Sounds strange, exciting, different, like bullsh*t? Good! The first step towards creating the you that you burn to become is finding something new.
As Einstein once said, “Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results.”
You’re here because, for one reason or another, you want different results.
And you, my brother, are most welcome.
If you’d like to join me, click here, fill out the simple form and let’s hop on a free, no holds barred call where we will discuss anything on your mind but, especially the things in your life you feel are holding you back. I know how much this work has enhanced my life. Now I want to help others enhance theirs too.